A lot of western guys dream about marrying a Russian or Urkainian lady. When it gets to the point some of these men want to know: what age difference is normal for a Russian lady? Is it real to find a lady who will be 8, 9, 11, 14 and even 19 years younger than a groom? Western guys know that such an age difference is almost impossible in the US. That’s why they are so amazed getting letters from beautiful ladies 12-16 years younger than they are. Likewise they are astonished that these girls are well-educated (business-managers, attorneys, doctors, bookkepers). Yes, it’s real and it occurs in Russia. Ladies are attractive and intelligent there. And most of them grow wiser earlier than american women. Possibly it occurs because of difficult situation in the country, girls have to grow wise early. Besides a woman feels herself secure near an older man.

From the other side, you should not have too high expectations. If you are in your late 50’s or 60’s, you must not hope to get a 20-year old girl. A lot of pretty, attractive ladies in their late 30s or 40s would be eager to make your acquaintance; half of marriage agencies’ women clients belong to this age group, and you won’t have problems with getting their attention. This is possible. Sure if you are very good looking, or very clever/wealty/well-known, you can make it with an disparity between years of even 20 years or more. But it will be an exclusion, not the rule.

If your aim is a strong family, remember to take age difference into consideration. Dating agencies like to tell stories about Russian girls choosing much older men, and that it won’t influence your future marriage; but that’s exactly what these fables are – fairy-tales. You should be big enough to understand reality and resist the temptation to believe myths. Apply powers of reason, and don’t let yourself be fooled by young employees from the matrimonial agency. Actually the most women will not have troubles with age gap up to 10 years, and some find acceptable disproportion in age up to 15 years, only a few will be OK with disparity of years up to 20 years. But anything beyond this will put you on a very thin ice, and you surely will meet troubles in your search.

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One more point is that the older a woman the less age gap is o. K. For her. For example a 20-year old girl may feel fine with a guy of 35, but a woman of 35 may think that a westerner in his 50’s is old for her. That is explained by the fact that many of weterners look for Russian wives and older women received the chance to pick up and to be selective. Young girls are more spoony and less ultimate. They feel themselves more assured and secure by the older and respectable husband.

The point is, women in Russia want to have husband and children really badly, and that is the main reason making them to seek men elsewhere, because in Easstern Europethere is only 88 males for 100 women Statistics.

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In Russia any single woman who is older than 23 is considered to be an “old maid”. That’s why so many young girls wish to start family as soon as possible. They wish to evade the blame. At the age of 27 a girl gets the highest pressure on herself about getting married and after that age her parents and acquaintances start to think that she will never become a wife. As you can understand a lady under 27 has a stronger wish to get a family than after that age. After 30 a woman is calm, she feel relatives’ press anymore and she finally has a opportunity to focus on her own desires and purposes. Just finding a partner is not the central idea any more.

A westerner should know that in real life there are a very few girls who really wish a much older man. Probably it looks like it and there are some causes why you could think so: • She simply did not write down age of her probable partner in her application. • She is looking for a rich husband and thinks that there are more wealthy men among older clients. • She thinks that the age is not so significant cause she didn’t think about it much. • She was told in dating agency that it will be plainer for her to find an older man. Anyway nothing is impossible. You always have an opportunity to meet a pretty lady 10 or 15 years younger than you are. Only don’t forget to be realistic.

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